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not talking anymore..
so i became really close to this girl jen (shes like 6 years older. she came down here for the weekend over the summer and i talked to her about everything. then over the winter she worked like crazy and i didnt talk to her much. so i almost feel like she didnt want to talk to me but idk why. i miss it but now we dont talk (she hasnt been online and if i was gonna text her i just dont know what to say) like before we could talk for hours and keep a conversation going but the last time we talked online it was a dud. same with the last time i texted her so i dont know what changed. why cant i talk to her like i used to. im almost afraid to talk to her (maybe im afraid she doesnt want to talk to me) i wanna start talking to her again but how can i get back to the way we were? what should i say in a text or aim...
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
if you want to get things straight, you have to CALL HER and talk it out. find out whats going on with her, because if you text or talk on aim to her you won't get a clear answer or have a good conversation. either something is going on and you need to find out, or shes just really busy. call her up, and talk to her.
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You should explain your feelings to her and see how she feels. The best way to handle situations like this is express yourself and honestly. That way you can clear the air and really get down to it. Instead of texting her you should call her, which would show how serious you are about improving your relationship. Talking online or in text messages is not the best method and is an easy way to send the wrong message and confuse things.
Call her and be honest.
Hope I helped and good luck! :)
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