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does he hate me?
I am absolutely in love with this kid john. He is literally the love of my life and I thought he felt the same about me but I was wrong. I offically asked him out about two months ago and he turned me down but told me there was still a chance. For the past few months he hasnt said 2 words to me. Does he hate me now?
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No. He's scared of you. He probably feels pretty bad about turning you down and doesn't want to lead you on any further.
This happened to me once. I liked a guy so much, but what I had to offer wasn't enough. I did the same thing, got rejected, and he didn't speak to me for months. Actually, almost a full year. Then one day I bumped into him, and it turned out that he realized what a mistake he made, but was too afraid to confront me because he felt so bad about turning me down in the first place. We ended up together, and stayed together.
Your best bet is to try and talk to him. Not about what happened or about being your boyfriend, either. Just talk. You must have been friends before, so just ask why you can't try and rekindle a friendship again. See where that goes.
I know how hard it is to just walk up to a guy and ask him what's been going on. So it might be in your favor to ask him outside of school. Via text, email, phone call. Any way to get him on his most personal level, is the way you want to get him.
Good luck, and I'm here if you need anything further.
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