The answer is really simple. SHE
needs to help you by letting you
know what she wants you to do. It
isn't just something YOU have to
come up with on your own.
Everyone is different. Work together
and have her tell you what she would
like. You do the same. Pleasing her
will make your experience much better
too. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
Lola answered Sunday June 8 2008, 11:00 am: Hey,
Listen, how to achieve an orgasm differs from one person to another.
YOu have to know, what turns her on the most and do more of that. maybe you could change the sexual position, try new ones.
When you come to have sex, do not have sex, make love, its different. Make it slow and passionate, don't make it vigorous and animal like.
Maybe try watching some porn video or something together while doing stuff to each other.
Touching the breast and rubbing over the nipples and fingering and rubbing over the clit and rough sex, all this can achieve an orgasm.
You could also slap her on the ass while having sex,and sometimes you could like shout out some dirty words, and that kind of helps to achieve an orgasm, but that's just to HELP in achieving one.
Just turn her on, make her so damn horny and wet,and position her somewhere where its like she has very little control to do anything, like use a sexual position when you are on top of her or like press her against a wall,and usually kissing the neck is what turns women on the most. [ Lola's advice column | Ask Lola A Question ]
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