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boy trouble
hey. umm i'm really confused about what to do with my close guy friend. We have been really good friends for a few years but i have always liked him and he likes me. We have reallty good chemistry and we tried going out and it was nice but i broke up with him. i'm not really sure why.
I was really hurt after that. Since then he's been with a few girls but he still likes me and i really like him. I want to be with him but i'm afraid of getting hurt or i'm afraid it might not work out again. He's made moves but and I can't stop thinking bout him and i don't know what to do!
I've read your answers and i always agree with your advice so thats why i asked you. Any advice will be appreciated, thanks soooo much!
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Ok, well i myself have been in this kind of relationship. but, the thing with me was i realized that we were just very good friends-all those mixed feelings and flirting were never going to change or go away, they just weren't going to be pursued. you also have to take into account how often you do see him, and if anything were to happen, who would be affected by it.
Getting hurt is never a good thing, but getting hurt can also make you realize what you have lost. Sometimes it is not the relationship or the liking between you two that you lost, but the friendship. And maybe the getting hurt is a good thing because if you have tried it before and it hasn't worked out, maybe it wont in the future. you may have good chemistry and look cute together and some people might take those risks and want to try again, but others might just accept that it hasn't worked out and it will not.
There might be friends who have mixed feelings about the situation, thinking it is cute, but then upset about the outcome. they have to realize that the people in the relationship do not intentionally mean to be unfair to the other partner, but they are just basing their actions off their feelings. and sometimes their feelings can lead to unclear actions,and it just does not feel right.
well i hope i have helped you and cleared some things up.
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