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He's leaving!
Hannah...help.
So I'm talking to this guy. He's amazing. We have so much in common and he's really great to talk to. I feel so comfortable with him whether we're hanging out...or making out...lol. He always know the cutest right thing to do, but he's still dorky like me so he's not so perfect that I get all nervous around him. He's just so cute! He does things that other ex boyfriends i've had would never think of doing. Like i think i feel a really great connection between us.
So it sounds all perfect right....but no.
He's leaving! In 20 days. (I'm sure you prob know who this is by now...lol) He's going off to college. I know that there's no way we could keep a relationship or anything while he's at college cause that'd be just way too hard for both of us, and we've already established that we deff wanna keep in touch. So i dont know if i should tell him how i feel about this whole connection thing or just not?
i dont know! Like I just think he's so great...and I know i have to let him go and it's not that i'm worried about that cause that'll be ok...i just don't know if i should tell him all my feelings or not!
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Well, situations like yours are always tough to make decisions in, considering no matter what you say, the situation is what it is and isn't going to change. He's still going to be leaving and you're still going to be stuck at home. But the way i see it, you have two roads you can take...
option 1: Obviously, tell him about how you feel. He knows already you have feelings for him or else you wouldn't spend so much quality time with him. But, (here's the downside) telling him either won't change anything for you, or it will just make it harder to deal with the fact that he's going and make it harder on both of you. Telling him won't keep him here as you already know. And you have to remember, he's going off to college. Of course you'll keep in touch and all, but college is college. Enough said. If you want to tell him just to get it out there so he knows exactly how you feel without playing guessing games, go for it. But bare in mind, it won't change the situation.
option 2: Obviously again, don't tell him. Like you said, you know you have to let him go and you don't think that will be a problem, but telling him might make that a problem if you get what i'm trying to say, because at that moment you might realize that now that it's out there and being discussed, it'll be harder to cope with. I could be wrong though. If you think there's a point in telling him then you should, but if there's no point and nothing is going to come out of it, why waste time and emotion?
Purely, the decision is up to you. You could go either way with this. If you think you'll regret not telling him and not putting it out there, then you should tell how you feel. But, if not, then don't. It's so simple yet so difficult when emotions are involved. But, i know you'll make a good choice and whatever you do, keep your head up and make the best decision to satisfy yourself. (:Hope i was able to help (: xxo Hannah
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