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so confuzed aboutt her
Hi, i hav been going out with my GF for nearly a year (we're both 18) and I am the most loving BF she could ask for. Its been good mostly until i discovered her cheating on me one day with a complete stranger... I found out afterwards she had also deffinitely done it before with one off her freinds whos freind told me himself and he apolofized. and she has told me she loves me and it would never hapen again.
Now i just cant bring myself to trust her at all, if she is out somwhere then i get so worrid and cant fucntion properly, i deffinitely dont trust her around other guys and she acts so friggin stupid when people try to make a move on her, acts as if she dont realize and i swear she doe it to hurt me. its gotten so bad i cry myself to sleep at nite cuz i love her so much and she just seems to nt care thou she says she does. i jst dnt kno what to do anymore, should i end it or do i jst shut up and try to forget aboutit. Im not been in many relationships and i dont kno what the protocal is for this... i just want to enjoy the summer formal without havin to dwell on this
please help
p.s. sorry for the bad typing, cryking so much as i write this, i stil feel lik im stabbin her in the back or somthing :(.
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If you want a swinging life style, this maybe the girl for you, but then, she's doing all the swinging isn't she?
My son has gone through the same thing and trust me, she won't change. The fact that it seems as if she is flaunting it should tell you that.
I will tell you the same thing I told my son. If you don't want this kind of life style, find another girl. If you do, then keep seeing her. Since your still young, you could party with her and give her to all your friends. Have some fun and hope you don't get any STD's.
Yeah, it's rough, but look at it this way, better you found out what kind of person she is before you got married, some guys find out after. Move on son, dating is about finding the one that is meant for you, you won't find her attached to someone who is not.
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Okay, first up dry your tears. Take this like a man--SHE DOESNT LOVE YOU IF SHE CHEATED ON YOU. My boyfriend cheated on me, and it hurt when i broke up with him he told me he used me for money and ass. he only liked me for 5 our of the 6 months. But, i also cheated on him, but it was a complete mistake becuase the guy took me and wouldnt let me go, he never found out 'till i told him myself. He also lied to me throughout the relationship. so i know how it feels to be stabbed in the back like that. I liked him a whole lot, he claimed he did, and he really didnt. he cheated on me all the time after school [we went to different schools, so there is a huge trust deal with that]. He treated me like shit [he had bi-polar disorder, and he studdered alot]. i dealt with that. He NEVER would let me hang out with my best friend who is a guy!he wouldn't trust me. i had to lie to him about what im doing.. i told him i was going to my friend sams house but i really went to his, and he would still call every 10 mins to make sure im being "the good girlfriend". But hes done with, i couldnt deal with him not trusting me. I think if i were you, id let her go and find someone i could trust, and someone that wouldnt cheat on me. Because i did that, i looked for a week, and i found him. The perfect guy<3
good luck! and if you need anymore help you can ask me!
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