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im annoying? and im loosing him..?
Im sorry that this is kind of long but i need help!
So last year, I was popular.. if you wanna say that.
Anyways , so me and this guy lets call Bob were reallyy close for about a year, talked 24/7. Wern't dating, but people thought we were, never kissed though.
Anyways, he was always there for me. This year I guess I got annoying to some people, like I guess
I say stuff, and me and this boy, we will call Jim were close, not as close , but anyways so I guess I started annoying Jim alot and he said I annoyed him because I always say im fat, but I really do think I am. Anyways Bob , always there for me. Said don't worry about it .. blahblah.
Anyways, about a month ago.. Bob didn't talk to me as much.. I asked him what was wrong? He said nothing, so I gave him space.. He started talking to my best friend.. And they talk everynight, and he only talks to me.. about once every two days.
I asked his close friend why he stopped talking to me... and he said because I was annoying.
I dont know what happend! Im really sad, cuz we had a really good thing going, and I like him..
I dont know what to do, but now latly Im ALWAYS like sad, and I'm almost always mad at my best friend, but not mean to her.
Someone Please please please help..
I really want him back
and im really sorry if this didn't make sense and was to long..
xoxo jessica
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dear jessica
i would say be youreself but in this case dont not to be rude or anything but give people lots of space so they be like... meybe shes change and you not fat thats low self estaem and eaven if you are you should be in the miror and say i look sooooo sexy today and say that every day and have some exersise tapes to help a little write me back bye
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First off, being mad at your best friend is really not nice because she honestly hasn't done anything. And i know you say you aren't mean to her. But you probably have started cutting her out with out noticing and she probably notices... and let me tell you something like that hurts!
Then you honestly need to become more certain of yourself because boys don't want to constantly have to reassure you. Half the time all they want is to have fun with a girl who is confident! and if you weight is such an issue with you you may want to talk to some one about it before it causes some serious problems.
Then, you need to talk to Bob it is the only way you are going to sort this out. Tell him you want to know whats wrong and tell him that your friendship means a lot to him. It is the only way to sort it out and becomes friends again.
Then in relation to the not being happy. I think you need to find other things that make you happy. Make new friends. Go out with other friends. Really just have fun and having fun should really help!It really should!
But you really need to talk to him so as to try and restore your friendship. And people who are your true things, will accept you for who you are or tell you when something is bothering them so that you can work on it together!
Good luck! If you need more help please ask! I hope i helped!
:)
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