yo, sup my rap group is doin great im not sure if u remember me but i need some advice dawg, ok well my best friend is dating this girl and i dont like her i think she is breakin up the group he misses practice alot and things are difff an i just want my homie back. pluss she is convicing him to do things he wouldnt normaly do like finger her and just fuckin stupid shit.... please help
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? deathwillcome answered Sunday June 15 2008, 2:09 pm: Have you talked to him about how you feel? For one, guys (or girls) will sometimes do anything for the person they are with, even if it's stupid. It sounds like she is taking over his life, and that isn't something that's good. That's a very toxic relationship and it will really ruin him if she breaks it off. Your band was something important in his life, as far as you make it sound, and she is becoming his life. He needs to see the light. Get your friends together and give him an intervention. Don't be mean, or too blunt, but just tell him, "we miss you, we miss our buddy and we need our band back. Your girlfriend is taking over your life it's getting to be a very bad thing. You are doing things that you would never do before. They are getting to be stupid things that you should think more about before you do them." but in your own words. Make it personal, something you know he'll hear. If you have more questions or I didn't answer everything you want me to, ask another question. Hope I helped. [ deathwillcome's advice column | Ask deathwillcome A Question ]
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