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i don't know what to tell him.
okay my boyfriend really wants me to give him a hand job. i can tell. he's been doing things sorta subtlely lately. we went to the movies a coupla days ago, and he was putting my hand on the inside of his thigh. he had his hand on top of mine and he just held it there. Then i was talking to him, and he was like making jokes about it, then when i said "why do you want me to so bad" he was just like "i'm kidding". i don't want to disappoint him, but i'm not sure if i'm ready to. if i were to give him a hand job though, i don't exactly know how to go about doing it. any pointers? oh and does it count if he keeps his pants on? if he is, how do you do it then?
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this is a typical guy thing. most guys have a fantasy of their girlfriends doing this, mine included. giving a guy that you trust and are close to is not nesscarily a bad thing. but by all means do not do it if you are not ready. If you start doing these things too early then you will feel like crap later for doing this. After the hand job step things also tend to escalate. So dont do anything that you are not 100% sure you are ready for.
If you decide that you are ready, talk to him first, no matter how akward. tell him that you are going to do that, but you dont want your whole relationship to be based on doing "things". A handjob is basically the rubbing and handling of a guys dick. pretty simple. plus most guys will tell you what they really like for you to do. so dont worry.
I dont know about other peoples opinions, but in my opioion through the pants counts. And this works with the same method except clothing in the way. Yes, some of the pleasure may be lost, but maybe this would be a good first step if your not sure about doing this.
I hope this helped. Feel free to ask anymore questions.
-jessicamarie.
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