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is she my friend?
So there is this girl, she doesnt go to my school, but her and all her girls at school always thought my ex was cute and stuff when i was going out with him. and this girl who i thought was my friend danced with him at a dance after we had broken up, then came and told me about it? and im like okay. and then the next day she apologized over a message and stuff and how it was nothing. and i told her i didnt care because i didnt want to start anything. hurting people is the last thing i'd do and i tend to keep my feelings bottled up inside so no one is hurt and everyones still my friend because thats the kind of person i am. well now i see they have been getting closer, and yeah hes moving in a month or two, but they've been getting awfully closer lately, and i dont know if i should say anything or what? i don't want to ruin a friendship, but then again is she actually my friend. i want to tell her how i feel but i am afraid of hurting the friendship and the friendship i have back with my ex finally. i am just bugged by it. thanks everyone!:)
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
if you guys are like aquaintances then yeah she is a friend...
but if she was like peanut butter and jelly with you then no...
confusing i know...
But i mean if it really bothers you then tell them about it. I know what bottling up stuff can do- i do it. haha but its not healthy. I explode on people because of it. Just say whats on your mind if its bothering you. If you are just jealous, then try to overcome it...
-hayley
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okay well it all depends on HOW much she is your friend..
if you 2 have a close bond where you tell each other a lot then you should tell her you dont feel comfortable with him and her together (literally there is nothing you can do about it because thats her life) and tell her you would rather not hear or see them together. dont be mean about it though
if she is a best friend (you spend every weekend together and blah blah blah) then tell her that it isnt right for her to be messing around with your ex and it isnt friend like (if you really want to be a bitch...tell her she is getting your sloppy seconds! haha no just kidding that will hurt the relationship)
goodluck
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