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Question Posted Saturday May 24 2008, 10:49 am

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so i used to like this guy in my art class
like majorly liked him but i was always afraid to talk to him
but i had this feeling that he liked me too.
then one day after school he comes up to me and tells me "how come you never talk" and he smiles and walks away
and my friend ebbaresses me so bad by yelling"why do you care? do you like her" and that got me emabressed
so yea then like a week later..
he used to always stare at me and my friends and
like always try to get a chance to talk to us
and yea
so the school day ends(friday)and i go home. then my friend calls me and tells me guess what and i go what and she says alex asked me out and alex is the guy that i like.
i was heart broken! i like literally wanted to shoot my friend. then the next day at school my friend kept on bragging and bragging about whats she should say. and like everythime she would mention his name it felt like she was killing me.
so yea technically she said yes to alex but like they used to never even look at each other or talk to each other they used to ignore each other. (they were in a relationship during this) so yea a few weeks later i found out he used to like me before my friend and that kinda made me happy but "used too" got me upset too.
but yeaa he still liked my friend(addy).
so yesterday my other friend natalie admits to us that she used to like alex too.
so my friend addy and i dare her to go to tell him that.
when she did he reacted so weirdly and that got both natalie and addy mad.
so today when we were going up for lunch one of alex's friends yell and say hey addy are you going with alex and addy decides to open her mouth and say no hes a jackass i hate hime hes so retarded and a bunchh of crap like that. idk wat the hell got into her but she went crazy. after lunch we had art and during his friends come up to me and natalie and goes why is your friend addy like that. she messed with alex's heart and broke it and yea all of that crap. no to let you know i sill have feelings for him but im pretty sure he hates me now but i didnt even do anything and even if he did like me i couldnt do anything cause my friend addy still is in love with him. we tried working it out but he wouldnt listen to us.
PLEASE HELP!


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iwantthetruth answered Saturday May 24 2008, 2:12 pm:
I think that the main problem is communication. You really shouldn't have told Natalie to say she used to like him. If she does not like him currently and it is all in the past then it doesn't matter anyways. Friendships and relationships are difficult to manage when you are young and even when you are older. If you have tried apologizing to him and it isn't working then there is nothing you can do for now. I also think that although he may be very nice and attractive, it isn't really a good idea to like the same guy as your friends. The best thing for all of you to do is talk to him and apologize for everything and tell him that you honestly did not mean to hurt him. After that you can try to be friends again but only if he wants to. If not then this will be a good lesson for you all.

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