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i like guys who make me upset :/
15/f
ok so there these two guys L and D. theyre best friends. so errm i like L alot. i've liked him for over one year now. i've never really talked to either of them because of some issues i've had with one other friend and it's complicated but i know that L likes/d me back (just trust me on this) and that D might like me as well.
so the problem is that L always makes me a bit sad and he's always ignoring me when i try to smile. but then, when i dont look he always looks like he's completely in love (my friends told me)
or when i ignore him, i still see that his looking at me when hes walking by mme or smth.
so i've ignored him a lot lately and he looked at me alot. so i think i mad ehim feel bad. and now hes hanging out with this other girl alot and i also saw him smiling at her once. i know theyre like best friends and i've never had a problem with him talking to girls, but now im starting to think he likes HER. but only since yesterday because they where sitting next t eachother cuddeling a bit :(
and i like him so much. he slike this hard to get guy, dresses quite emo and really sexy.
but im never too happy when i see him and always scared to look. and he always playes "games" with me by looking and then being pissed because i didnt look back and ignores me. and he often just wants to be cool. the good thing is that i can tell that tho.
he's really complicated and also drinks and smokes and is often a bit mean to his friend D.
for some reason al that turns me on :(
and there is his friend D. he's like the sweetest guy i've ever seen. and i always get a smile on my face when i see him. i know he's really nice to everyone.
i wish i could just like HIM because i know he'd be perfect, but for some reason im attracted to L and everytime i wanna get over him i think : "what if something could happen between us after all"
it's shiiiit.
please help me. and dont tell me L is a playa because he's actually not playing with me as in he doesnt really like me.
but he's 16 and never had a gf.
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the sad thing is im JUST like L. how he ignores you and acts pissed then loving, to you, i always do that to other guys. ive never had an actual "bf" so im lovesick, its how most lovesick people get. i fall for any guy then i remember how much this one guy who was my best friend made my life hell because we liked eachother. so i think every guy is like that, i start flirting with a guy then i act mad at him then end up cuddling with him and talk soooo much then usually cuss him out when i leave and never see him again. this all reminds me especially of last night. in every possible way except put me in L's position and the guy i was with in yours, he was 16 im 14, he liked me. i say hes just like me an emo messed up kid in a lovesickend world, altho im not emo, just start talkin to him even if he ignores you say awwww please talky to me, ina cute lil voice lol. i say hes just like me i end up hating every guy i see and start to love within the day. but he is not a player at all. he will be the sweetest guy you meet if you get to really know him. just tell me to redo it if you dont get it, im really outa it right now. i hope i helped
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The fact that you don't know either of them is rather limiting because it would make it difficult to decide who you want to be with. Get to know them both. I know I know, you are afraid to talk to them, or you think it will be awkward, or whatever the reason may be. But please get past this fear and become at least familiar with them. You can not know the whole truth about a person who you have never had a conversation with. Don't let someone who ignores you bring you down either, like I said you don't know him and therefore his approval should not matter. I think you have a great opportunity to learn something about yourself here. So don't worry. Talk to them or allow one of your friends to introduce you. Be yourself and do not let fear take over you.
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