so theres this boy, we fight alot..we usee to neevr fight ! and i like him and he use to like me, but i dont know if he still does. but he also talks to many other girls, yes your typical man whore "why would you even bother type of guy"..i bothered because i didnt know him excatly like that, he wasnt like that at all when it came down to him and me talking. i guess hes really behaved when it comes down to almost realtionship stats. then this chick, aka the b**** well she got extremely jealous, and him and her use to talk, so she decided to come back into his life randomly? i hate girls sometimes... anyways, we stopped talkin for a while, then he had some away up about cryingg ? i thought something bad happened, so i asked if he was okay.. he just was upset a because he didnt have a ride to summer jam, june1st concert.. so i offered to take him, then later in the convo he says well can you do me a favor and youll do it if you care about me like you said you did.. so i said yeah like i said i did, and he said since ur giving me the ride, and the person i want to bring ur not friends with, can you make up with her? yeah guess who it is! thaa b****!!! mhm. well i agreed into takin her because i hate ruining peoples fun, im not getten walked on or anything, i just rather see someone happy other than pissed because i wont bring his little hotchie mama!, im not becoming friends with her, buh i feel so stupid evenn agreeing to bring him and her ! . well just brining him i didnt mind, buh brining her ! ugh. im a mess and i need some serious help !
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Angelique answered Friday May 23 2008, 10:39 pm: I know it's hard to accept but this is going nowhere. This guy is a user! Don't let him do this, giving in this time sets the stage that he can always use you. and trust me, he will as long as you let him.
I know you don't want to, but the best thing for you to do is cut all ties with him. He's playing you because he can.
You can either be the rival player, or just a piece on the board. What's it going to be
And don't be worried about ruining their fun, are they worried about ruining yours? [ Angelique's advice column | Ask Angelique A Question ]
GilbertMar answered Thursday May 22 2008, 1:52 pm: Your relationship is over with, with this guy, whether you like it or not. You have given your word to take him, you should never break that, but you should break it off with him right away. This guy uses women, he is not looking for someone to spend his life with, just someone to get his ahum wet. If you are looking to share him and have fun, stick with him, if you look for a man, this guy is not going to become one any time soon. Never stay with a guy who uses the line, "if you loved me you'd do it." [ GilbertMar's advice column | Ask GilbertMar A Question ]
xPoetx answered Thursday May 22 2008, 12:48 pm: Well I think you are super nice for agreeing to take her along but that isn't fair of him to ask that of you. If you aren't comfortable of taking the both of them just simply brake it off to him easy. If he gets upset with you because you decided not to take them then he obviously isn't a friend, he was just desperately trying to find a way to catch a ride to the concert [ xPoetx's advice column | Ask xPoetx A Question ]
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