okay so im 16& i have this boyfriend. and ive been "going out" with him for a month. i need to break up with him but i dont know how. i did before i felt bad so i took him back. this time i want it to end for good. hes too clingy and is all "i love you". hes (no offence) weird..like he listens to weird music and thats somthing i dont like. i cant related to him anymore. hes kind of a poser and a REALLY BIG LIER!(he even lied about his age!)and i cant take it anymore. he told me that hes going to kill himself or he tried. and that im the only good thing ih his life!he told me i wood break his heart if i broke up with him cause hes in "love" help!!
JessicaW answered Wednesday May 21 2008, 5:18 pm: You shouldn't let him stand in the way of your happiness. Sometimes that's just what people say so they know you won't leave them (how some girls say they're pregnant).
You just need to let him down easy, tell him you still wanna be friends, but you don't have feelings for him anymore. If you would like, you could even talk to his parents and tell them your concerned about him, if you really think he might do something to hurt himself. . . [ JessicaW's advice column | Ask JessicaW A Question ]
cloudy_conscience answered Wednesday May 21 2008, 4:14 pm: The best thing for you to do is to let him down easily, you can't put yourself in an uncomfortable situation or when you aren't happy, just for someone else. Here is another tip, most people who tell you they are going to kill themselves really don't have the guts to do it or at least not the intentions to. They just tell you that so you won't leave them.
Let him know that you just aren't compatible, but that you would still like to remain friends.
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