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What should I do? I need help with basic teen/school dilemm
I am SO nervous for Cedar Point! My school is taking us. So, my bf is HELL BENT on making me go on these huge ass roller coasters (which i HATE). He also thinks I'm just going to ride with him... I want to tell him that 'There's no way in hell I'm ditching my girlfriends to just ride with you. Sure I'll ride with you sumtimes but my other friends want me to ride with them too' but I dont wanna sound like mean or like a bitch, you know?
THEN, there's the matter of the bus. My bf, Tim, my friend, Terra, and my other friend, Jane, all want me to sit with him/her on the bus. AND they not only want me to sit with them they think I already know who im goin to sit with themself. I told eachone, 'um yea sure ill sit with u, just let me see how this whole thing works out,' I didnt wanna hurt any1's feelings. Now here's the thing, I really don't care who I sit with on the damn bus, its only for an hour or 2. Jane is a little bitch so I dont want to really sit with her; plus she already told Kait that if I were to sit with her then she would ignore me anyway she just wants to have a friend with her so she doesn't look like a 'loner'; I could just get her to sit with our other guy friend, Gordo. Then there's Terra who has NO ONE to sit with, she's REALLY insecure and doesn't trust people; BUT i know if I sit with her she's going to talk about really depressing things and its gonna be a downer. THEN there's Tim, he's alright just has none to sit with on the bus.
Who do you think I should sit with and how I should tell Tim without being a bitch?
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i think you should sit with who you want to sit with. if those girls are your friends then they wont care. and just tell your boyfriend when your at the park that you want to ride some of the rides with your friends im sure if he really likes you he wont care. just as long as you ride with him to.
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I would first off let Tim know that you are not all that comfortable with huge rollercoasters and therefore don't really plan on riding them all day long. Just remember to phrase it nicely, and you won't come off bossy or anything. Spend some time with him in the park, but not the whole day because yes, you should spend time with your friends.
Well first of all, I wouldn't sit with Jane because she sounds like she just uses people.
Why don't you sit with Terra on the way up and possibly Tim on the way back? That way, no feelings get hurt. If you sit with Terra first, you'll spend time with her before going off with Tim for a few hours. And to me, it seems like all Terra really needs is a friend. I'd sit with Tim on the way back to make up for not spending the WHOLE day with him if he was previously expecting that. That way, he'll get to finish off a great trip with you.
Honestly though, it doesn't really matter who sits with who on the bus. I'd just make sure you don't hurt feelings, but you don't need to make everybody 100% happy. And if you don't want to sit with a certain person, then don't. Simple as that. I doubt that your friendship will depend on this bus ride. And if it does, then who needs friends like that?
Have fun on your trip!
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