so there's this guy at my school..and i REALLY like him! he gives me hugs all the time (which i LOVE cuz he smells good :D) and he told me that he likes me. but he has a girlfriend and i've seen him with her. my friends are all "this is bad he's leading you on and he has a gf" and i know that. but idk what to do..i don't wanna like...stop talking to him or anything. but i don't want to be led on. what do i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Siren_Cytherea answered Tuesday May 20 2008, 1:44 pm: I love it when guys smell good. If they hug me when they smell good, they'll have to pry me off with a crowbar. Lol, anyway...
If you know he has a girl, then he's not technically leading you on, but I understand what you mean.
Your friends are right in a sense, but you don't have to stop talking to him. You DO have to set him straight - tell him that what he's doing is not cool, nor is it fair to his girlfriend. If he likes YOU and he's dating HER, he's clearly with the wrong girl. If it's a case where he can't decide which girl he likes better, tell him to come talk to me. Lol - seriously, if he put you in this situation, clearly he's having some troubles of his own. Send him to an unbiased third party, even if it isn't me, and let him talk it out with them.
In either case, you need to talk to him and tell him he's gotta shape up.
The relationship game is one big risk taking frenzy, so take one now and you may be rewarded for it - or at least, you won't be so confused, and neither will he.
Good luck!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
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