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I don't know what to do with this guy
So I'm a bi guy and I like this one guy, is straight, but he just might be curious. He is so HOT but I can't tell if he likes me or not. So I heard from a really good friend and source (Luis) that told me that the guy I like (Stefano) his best friend was curious about being gay the first semester of school, and now, this semester (the second semester of school) Stefano's best friend (Dave)got Stefano to be curious about being bi this semester. Luis also told me that Stefano and Dave have been expirementing with each other and that they are doing it with each other. At first I was in denial and I didn't want to believe it but I realized that Stefano and Dave cry (like actually cry with tears) for each other and that when ever one of them spends the night at the other's house, the next morning the are both sore from their butts. So I'm not sure if they are curious and expirementing with each other or not, but I really like Stefano and I don't know what to do about it. Can anyone give me advice? Please?
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How are your grades?
I know it's difficult to retain focus when your body is screaming out to do other things. This is going to go on for a while until after you get out of school, so get used to it. Control is something you're supposed to learn now when your mistakes don't cost you too dearly so be sure to work on it.
Keep in mind that your brain is in flux right now and that anything you focus on will become more intense as you get more and more into it. At your age it's supposed to be education and discipline.
Would you like to be a slave to your body or would you prefer a lifetime of pleasures? The choices you make now will define your life.
Always try to take a step back, take a deep breath, let it out slow and look the situation over a bit more slowly than you'd like to. You'll really appreciate the results.
-- Stay Honest
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Hang on a min... these two might not just be experimenting with eachother, they might actually have feelings for each other.
Especially if you know that there is sexual activity going on between them.
If you are absolutely certain that there are no feelings between these two guys then I would make a move, don't come on too strong. Just let the guy know you think he's hot!
If, however your not sure about their real feelings for eachother then i'd stay low for a while! Perhaps you could still become friends for the time being and flirt a bit but also take into consideration that this other guy might have feelings for the guy you like too.
You don't really want anyone to get hurt here. Try to sus out the situation before you make any decisions.
Hope I helped :)
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