Why do I feel like my friend and I situation between us isn'
Question Posted Monday May 12 2008, 12:40 am
I told her I like her in high school. She didn't say anything because she was shocked. After that we still hang out and have good time she is a close touchy person and we are close friends. But I wanted to understand why she seems okay with me liking her because she didn’t say anything. So 2 years later, I realize that I am bisexual, later I ask why she seems fine with it but don’t like me in that way. Till she got jealous that I met a guy (nothing happen), I ask her to explain a she said she was being over proactive. But she no like me…anyways I still have these feeling that our situation between us isn't over. Because between all of those issues; she told me “time will tell for the both of us” and she is unsure if she is gay. Why do I have this feeling that our situation isn't over? I want to move on but then deep down I don't. Some of my friends notice that she flirts with me I ignore it because I try not to look into it to much. Is this feeling I have is just wishes or what????
It seems like a really long time to me. At least a year now.
I wish you would stop wasting your time.
It no longer matters what she feels or thinks. You have wasted years of your life trying to figure out how she feels, instead of taking control of your own feelings and giving yourself permission to move on.
At this point, nothing is ever going to change. She is never going to change and want to be with you. She is never going to admit the truth about what she has been doing. Even if she did, you two could never be togeather. There is too much drama, jealousy and lying between you. It's doomed. It's hopeless. Time to move on.
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