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who should be the father?
I am 31 years old I have ben married for 7 years and had an affair 7 months ago with this guy who is 27 years old. I ended up getting pregnant by this guy, but I'm working things out with my husband. I just don't know what to do about the baby. The biological father is the other guy, but my husband wants to claim the baby has his own. I know legally the baby is considered his since we are still married. But, should I just shut the other guy out and not let him be the father? He is really excited about the baby and says he can't wait to be a father. I know it would be a lot easier on our relationship it the other guy wasn't involved at all. I don't know what to do Help!
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first of all your husband married you to love you, have a life with you and have kids with you. he should be entitled to just that. the other guy (from your previous question) said that he was ignoring you and that he didn't care or w/e. if this guy is this indecisive then he shouldn't have anything to do with this child.
second, a child deserves a normal family with a mother and a father. not two fathers. you should think about what is better for this kid and what will make this childs life easier. you also need to decide who will love this child more.
third, this guy knew you were married when he decided to have sex with you not thinking about the consequences. this just proves what will be in the future. he is not thinking about you or your feelings just about getting into your pants. is this what you want for your child?
i hope i helped and good luck. it will be hard but you must decide whats best
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