well first off im 17/f... not a virgin.. for the first time ive had sex with my bf of 6 months.. and i was extremely tight... it was PAIN. my cherry has already been popped but after we finished WAAY after i was lightly bleeding as if i was cut... tis worried me? what can it be? thanks in advance!
-Sometimes girls are just naturally tight like that and sex will be painful for quite awhile.
-Another possiblity is that your hymen never completely tore and there is still part of if covering your vaginal opening.
If this is becoming a serious problem for you, if you can't enjoy sex because it's too painful then you should consider seeing a gynocologist. You can check your city for any clinics that may offer free exams or if you're comfortable telling your mom, have her take you.
It could be serious so I strongly suggest you see a professional.. even if it isn't serious, it's good to know what's up.
teardrops7 answered Sunday May 11 2008, 1:58 pm: Hmm, my friend is really tight too. She has to get surgery before she can even have sex. She couldnt even fit a tampon in. I would just talk to your doctor. Maybe you have the same problem...If you go to the doctor they cant tell your parents, or anyone. So you would be safe from that. Or the school nurse.
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