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boyfriend problems!!
Okay i have a boyfriend and his name is Kyle and i love him so much but after 3 months of dating me and my friend was doing a test on him and she made up a name and started flirting with him becasue i told her to and so she asked him if he had a gf and he said maybe but he dont know if he should dump me because of her and he dont even know her but before that he cussed my sister out and asked her if she was horny and everybody keeps telling me not to date him but i really like him and i dont care about the looks i care about the personality but like i really like him but then i dumped him after he dsiad that to my friend about the dumping me part and he said it was just a joke and he keeps telling me that he loves me and that he is sorry but now he wont even answer my calls or talk to me on myspace and i really want him back but help me please of what to do
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Hello,
Honesty is always the best policy. You set him up to fail. Tricking him with your friend was low and I would be very unhappy with my son if he remained in a relationship with someone who would try to trick him into being dishonest. You need to re evaluate your issues and see that he feels like he cannot trust you. No one wants to be around someone who is manipulative and deceitful. Shame on you for doing dirty deeds.
I am more concerned for you. Who in your life says these things are ok to do to other people? You have acted in a morally wrong manner and should be ashamed of yourself and anyone else who does things like that.
You need a double dose of honesty classes followed by a lesson in moral values. Your dishonest actions did this. The only way to fix it it to face what you have done. Admit that it was a very bad thing to do to someone you say you love and apologize to your victim. In fact you should also apologize to your friend for influencing her to be dishonest. Two of the most important character trait that anyone can have is honesty and moral integrity. You have displayed a lack of both with this little test.
Start being honest right now! Later in life, doing something like this could land you serious, life threatening situations - all this because you were not an honest person.
Good luck
-- Stay Honest
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you dont deserve this guy. You can do better. You said you care about personality. well lets go over this okay:
-he was flirting with a "stranger"
-he was talking about dumping you
-he is ignoring you trying to make it seem like its your fault.
It is not your fault and he is turning it on you. Apparently people know something that you dont, i say that you should just forget about him. It might be hard. Maybe you dont love him, you just love the fact of having him??
-hayley
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