im going out with this guy he doesnt want to have sex right now.. i respect that.. but i have needs haha and i want it really bad and one of my best friends said he wants to hookup with me i like my boyfriend a lot but should i tell my boyfriend that i need a brake? i dont want to cheat on him... what should i do??
dont say just masturbate because its nowhere near as good as sex is
You should respect your boyfriends morals and values, at least he HAS morals and values!
I know it may seem oh so hard not having sex with your boyfriend right now, but it will be worth it in the end. I'm not speaking from experience, but think about it, would you rather have sex with him via force and pressure or when he's ready and wants to?
If it becomes that big of an issue, maybe he's not the right guy for you. Relationships shouldn't have tension, and the issue of sex is a major cause of it.
so_confused answered Friday May 9 2008, 4:19 pm: Being in a long distance relationship, I can relate to wanting to have sex and not being able to. I have thought about doing it with somebody else a few times, but then I will start to think about my boyfriend again and I realize that I would feel like crap if I had sex with anyone else (if i was currently dating him or not). I suggest that you just wait until your boyfriend is ready. I have a few friends that lost their virginity, and now they really regret it, because it was with the wrong guy/girl. I do not know if you are a virgin or not, and I don't think it really matters in this situation. But I suggest you just wait until he is ready. Because, if you really like him, you will feel like crap if you do it with somebody else. Hope this helps [ so_confused's advice column | Ask so_confused A Question ]
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