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Being Pantsed
What do i do if i told on this girl who pantsed me and her friends are really mean????
Signed-Scared for my life
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You have seriously got to learn to defend yourself. If anyone grabbed me, gave me a wedgie or pulled my pants down they'd get dumped on their ass.
That's what you should have done even if you couldn't win the fight at least they'd know you fight back. You could get a few good licks in there that demanded their respect. I don't condone violence but if someone hits you or does what they did than by all means fire back.
I would get some wrestling, karate, Russian martial arts or Brazilian jujitsu lessons to learn confidence and how to stand up for yourself. What would I do now? Approach her by her locker and press your finger into her chest and say " I don't know what your problem is with me but you better deal with it or you'll have an even bigger one if you mess with me again."
She needs to see as do her friends that you aren't in the least bit intimidated even if you are. Bullies pick on victims usually because they are jealous of their popularity, talents, status or that they themselves have a poor home life or feel worthless. They usually take it out on someone.
Just know she's on a slippery slope to nowhere and go about your business and don't give her a second thought. The moment you don't react is the moment she'll move on to someone else. That goes double for fighting back.
Let adults you trust know what is happening so it's documented with the school. That way they can't suspend you or cause trouble if you fire back at her. Even if they did suspend you it says a lot for them not caring about someone who is getting bullied. They always pass the buck and make it your fault.
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Whoever this girl is is a total jerk. If you have a friend that is older friend or an older brother then tell them and get them to help. Dont get her back if anthing. imagine if you were mean to a person and then 2 older boys came up to you and told you not to mess anymore.
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