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I'm torn between two guys.
ok so there was this guy we'll call Jake... and me and jake had been talking for awhile but we like never hung out or anything. maybe once or twice. Jake is a sophomore in college and i'm a junior in high school. anyway.... we stopped talking because he starting going out with another girl from my school but while they were dating he told me he thought he loved me and i was the one and all of this stuff... which scared that crap out of me. so I did the bad thing of kind of leading him on feeding into everything. Well....... one of his best friends, we'll call caleb... is a senior at my school and we recently started talking. I still can't tell for sure if he likes me.. I'm pretty sure he does. We hung out this weekend and I had a blast with him. It was so fun. Jake happened to be there too but didn't say one word to me until we were about to leave. it was werid. so i guess my problem isn't that i'm torn, it's more so I don't know what to do about caleb. I like him, a lot. but it's like sometimes he's so into me and other times he could care less.. i'm so confused. i'm hanging out with him friday.. we're gonna go watch a movie at the drive inn.... so hopefully that goes good.
please please let me know what you think!
thanks
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Hey, it sounds to me like you have a big decision to make. When you're with caleb does he make you happier than jake does when you're with him? Who do you have more feelings for? Ask yourself these questions and you will know what to do. Don't worry you have to great guys who like you everything should go over well.
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okay well you and jake do seem like you have a little thing together, but if he is dating other people and not coming straight up to you about it then i say go for caleb. Or at least give him a try, it seems like you two are starting to get closer and see each other more which means that he has to be interested. Take a little time and see how it is going with him. If it doesn't work out then wait a little while, and maybe so what jake is back up too.
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