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so i was with this guy since sixth grade to the 8th grade... he was my first love and i really loved him...when my parents told me to no longer talk to him i did and when he caused me to fight girls cause of drama around him I still talked to him...now we are 9th graders and go to different high schools and started talking again...now I thought that i was his first love and that we had something special but i had asked him...how much have you loved me on a scale 1-10 and he said well like a seven...i asked him how high his been and he told me like a 10 and i said with who and he said with this girl name vannesa well im so hurt i thought we had something but IDk what to do...shoould i stop talking to him cause right now old feelings are just comeing up and i think im just hurting myself..please give me any advice you have for this...should i stop talking to him or what????
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I have been through this a couple of times before. The best thing to do is just to go to him and say something along the lines of, "I still really like you, but I think I need to stop talking to you for a while because all of these old feelings are coming up and I just need to get rid of them." I am not saying you should never talk to him again, but you should take a break from talking to him if it is hurting you. The one thing to remember is, that there is NOTHING/NOBODY worth being hurt over. I hope this helps.
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This sounds really painful and I am sorry that you are dealing with this. But i think that you not seeing him will be good for you and yes you should stop talking to him. I had the biggest thing for my best friend and after middle school we went to different high schools and I felt horrible. But over time I was able to make friends at school and forget about him. I even had a boyfriend in high school. Basically these things are really hard to deal with but you will pull through, I promise. Its a good life lesson too because it will make you stronger and help you cope with heartbreak if it happens again in the future. I want you to go to sleep tonight and when you wake up tomorrow, just tell yourself "everything is going to be okay and I am okay. Today will be the start of a new life for me."
I think you will be just fine. Hope you feel better tomorrow and even if the pain has not completely gone away, it will with time.
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