my name is ashley. my x-bf hates me because i got pregnet after we already broke up.and now hes going out with one of my friend..and he doesnt believe me that im pregnet even though i showed him the pictures from the doctors..what can i do to get him to belive im pregnet?
Razhie answered Friday May 2 2008, 1:41 pm: You are a teenager right? So is he? Do his parents know?
Call his mother. Or write her a letter and include the photos. State specifically that her son does not believe you.
I'm dead serious. Let his parents know. Don't be nasty or cruel about it; just be straight forward and honest.
She might take her son's side, but if you are polite and honest it's more likely she will be furious with him. Either way, the cat will be out of the bag and he will be forced to acknowledge the situation, even if he continues to behave badly or lie about it.
If you know the child is his, and you know you are pregnant and he is behaving like a juvenile delinquent, take it up with his parents.
He is a minor still I imagine, so the fact that you are pregnant will affect them just as much as it will him. Not only do they have a right to know, they need to step up and be his parents, and get him to behave. Hopefully they will do that. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
chakra answered Friday May 2 2008, 1:23 pm: If he won't believe you when you've shown him proof from the doctors then i doubt theres anything you can say to convince him, wait a couple of months until you start showing, he'll believe you then. [ chakra's advice column | Ask chakra A Question ]
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