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I don't want to ruin what we have
I have a class with one of my friends. I only met him this year, really. He's one grade older than me, a junior. We get along really well and talk all class. And I mean like all the whole class. And outside of class too. He's fun and silly any someone who I've grown close to, and attracted to. He has a girlfriend, but it definitely seems like he flirts with me.
I don't know what to do. I'd like to know what he thinks about me but I don't want it to hurt our friendship, especially if he's not into me... u know? So I'm very confused--- Help!?
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Well if he has a girlfriend then it may be best if you just step back, I mean you don't want to hurt her or ruin their relationship or start drama. He could just be flirty, lots of guys are. You can either talk to him about it and let him know that you kind of like him and everything, but that you don't want to intrude on his current relationship. This way he will know exactly where you stand.
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Well no you don't want to pour out all your feelings to a guy that already has a girlfriend and your not even sure if he likes you. This is could possibly end the friendship. ONce way you could see if he would be interested is to somehow bring up a conversation about the type of people you guys would date. For instance, "You see that guy with his pants hanging down and cursing. I wouldn't like that guy because... I like more of the ____________ kind what about you?" Then maybe the conversation could go like "Based on my kind of guy it could be you for all I know." I would use that to start off but definetly don't rush into anything and don't encourage him to break up with his girlfriend, but at least you will have an idea of whether he likes you or not. I hope this helps and if you have anymore questions feel free ask more questions and if you want me to answer for you go to my advice page. Ask sleak06
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