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I'm sure you all must get these questions the how to loose weight. But I've always been known as the skinny girl and this past school year i gained a good 10lb and its really frustrating me and i was wondering what can i do im currently doing the no carb diet seems to be working but i want to know what kind of exersizing i can do. please help. im obsessed with my weight ! (link)
First of all, stop being obsessed with your weight so what you gained a few pounds it was probably good for you. Do not do the no carb diet because while you are losing weight you could also be losing energy and being that it means you can really only eat dairy products, you could e be throwing you cholesterol down the drain. Instead of trying to loose weight quickly you should focus on loosing it gradually so that you can develop better eating and exercise habits. Eat all of your food groups, and check the food pyramid website for more information(at the bottom of this reply). You should probably start with aerobics: running, jumpng, skating, stepping, get your heart rate up and start excersising about 30 min every other day or three to five days a week. With a good plan you can lose weight and not sacrifice your health.

http://www.mypyramid.gov/


my bf has the most respect for me and hes really sweet. i just don't think he thinks im sexy. other "sexy" girls grab his attention easily. is there any way i can do the same and make him only pay attention to me? i just want him to think "wow ive never seen her like that before" and think of me in a sexy way. without losing the respect of course.

i need help and ideas!!!
p.s. im seeing him this weekend.

f/16 (link)
Who said that he didn't see you as sexy? I know what you are going through and you need to tell him that it bothers you that he is always paying attention to other girls. Also, it sounds like you need to have more confidence in yourself. As for the weekend I can't really help you with that because I can't see you. But maybe you want to wear red, put on some high heels and were a comfortable spring skirt. Make sure it is maybe three inches above your knees and you don't see everything when you sit down. You are aiming for sexy and classy.


I have a class with one of my friends. I only met him this year, really. He's one grade older than me, a junior. We get along really well and talk all class. And I mean like all the whole class. And outside of class too. He's fun and silly any someone who I've grown close to, and attracted to. He has a girlfriend, but it definitely seems like he flirts with me.

I don't know what to do. I'd like to know what he thinks about me but I don't want it to hurt our friendship, especially if he's not into me... u know? So I'm very confused--- Help!? (link)
Well no you don't want to pour out all your feelings to a guy that already has a girlfriend and your not even sure if he likes you. This is could possibly end the friendship. ONce way you could see if he would be interested is to somehow bring up a conversation about the type of people you guys would date. For instance, "You see that guy with his pants hanging down and cursing. I wouldn't like that guy because... I like more of the ____________ kind what about you?" Then maybe the conversation could go like "Based on my kind of guy it could be you for all I know." I would use that to start off but definetly don't rush into anything and don't encourage him to break up with his girlfriend, but at least you will have an idea of whether he likes you or not. I hope this helps and if you have anymore questions feel free ask more questions and if you want me to answer for you go to my advice page. Ask sleak06


i had sex about exactly 2 months ago in february.. i was supposed to get my period around march 1st but i ended up getting it a week late.. and that sometimes happens with me .. but so far i havent gotten my period and i was supposed to get it around the 6th of this month because thats when i got it last month.. i still havent gotten my period and im about 2 weeks late. so is there a possibility that im pregnant even though i had my period in between the last time i had sex and now? (link)
Well, no I don't think you are pregnant but because it has been so long you could just take a test. If are pregnant you have to understand that some women bleed during pregnancy. Someone I knew bled for 15 day and they were in the middle of the pregnancy. If you are not pregnant then you should see your doctor about the irregularities in your period.


My wife has had a mamagram for the first time
on the 09/04/2008.
got her results back,it said she as to go back for more test,i am very worried, so is she.
petepatty (link)
familyfirst has excellent advice to your question and I would just like to add that sometimes women's breast are really dense, so it can be hard for the mamogram to see through it. Again, don't anticipate the worst.


I just can't study or get anything into my head when there's music on. I listen to music a lot but not when I'm studying. My sister always cranks the music up and it drives me nuts because she says it helps her study. but sometimes she gets low marks so I kind of doubt it.

Does music help you study? (link)
Music can help you study especially when you have those more-than-boring subjects that need a little life added to it. if music is played low then it could be a nice addition to your quiet study. It is probably better that you listen to some music that you can tolerate but don't really love to listen to. Think about it, if your favorite song comes on the radio are you really going to pay attention to how the derivative and the tangent can create a revolving object? That was Calculus by the way. Put on your second or third favorite genre of music so you don't pay that much attention to it.


do you have any bday ideas that can pump up my party? im planning to have a band and a host. what else? can u suggest themes and besides the boring 18 Roses and Candles, are there any other cute names to call the group?

i want it to be UNIQUE. how about the tokens?
can u suggest unique tokens that they can bring home after the party? and also how about party games for adults?

pls. pls. help! (link)
Yes, you should do party games for the adults. One thing to do is to take all the children's games they play at birthday parties and upgrade the age approprietness for it. Maybe "Pin the Tie on the Shirtless Man" I think that would be fun. Make sure your band is good though because they could do enough pumping up for you. Tokens are good you could also hand out prizes for dares. "I dare you to... for this green teddy bear." O.k. that might have been corny but you get the picture.


see, i have a very small stomach. i usually get really really hungry and think i need to eat a lot, but then i eat only half as much as i thought i could and then about 30 to 45 minutes later i get starved again.

well, for the past 4-7 days, thats completely changed. im not very hungry at all. i usually need to eat about every two hours. right now its 6:45 PM and i have only had cereal, yogurt, and juice today. thats a major drop in diet. and im afraid my metabolic rate is going to slow dramatically and then when i try to eat again, ill gain weight. or im afraid im going to lose a lot of weight and get sick. im very thin and im 5'4". im 15/f and i weigh between 103-106. my weight has stayed in that range for about...5 to 6 months? anyways, i've also been very very tired every day. and like i said, im just never hungry anymore. i've been getting plenty of sleep, trust me.

so, whats wrong with me? (link)
Well, I am not a medical doctor. You should ask yourself some questions: are you doing anything different maybe something you are not comfortable with yet? It could be that you are under a lot of strees. The first thing you should do is don't panic sometimes things just happen with your body it doesn't mean you are sick. If you are a girl, it could very well be bloating from your period. I can say that hunger is related to the amount of blood sugar levels. So if you ate tons of carbs earlier in the day or the day before you may not be hungry for a while. If you are truly concerned, as you should be with changes in your body, set up an appointment with your doctor.


Do most guys really like having anal sex with their girlfriends? It just seems like my boyfriend wants that way more than "regular" sex. does that mean you are like loose or something? and what is the attraction? i think its pretty gross but let him sometimes just because he likes it. (link)
People have very unpredictable sexual preferences. I would not say that most guys like to have anal sex but many are curious. I would say that anal sex is like an illegal drug: people want it because they are generally not allowed to have it. If you think that he likes anal better than vaginal and you are curious you should just come out and ask him, "Why?" If you too are intimate there is no reason you should not be able to talk about that kind of thing. I am going to mention something and this is not always true but I wouldn't be giving good advice if I didn't lay in on the table. He could be gay or bisexual. I'm not saying he is but you will know if that is what is happening. It is ok to make your partner happy but just be sure that you are getting something out of it as well. So if you think it is gross he should respect that and accept that you may or may not use it for special occasions.




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