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Hi! So thanks for the previous advice about my best friend and I going further. It helped. We sat down today and talked it through. We both decided we want the responsibility of it. We are both 100% sure about going thru with it now. I know!!! I can feel it. But I have one more question. This is kind of embarassing too. What do I do? I don't know how to do anything really. I am completely innocent. He knows this and is completely ok with it, but I still dont' want to look or seem like a retard. He wouldn't care, but I would. Do you have any advice about how to carry this out, things to do to make it special, or sexy? Please help. Your previous advice helped a bunch.
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I totally get what you mean by the not wanting to look stupid part lol. Like, I'm a virgin too so I wouldn't know exactly, but I can apply it to other aspects of my life. Even around loved ones, it's still easy to feel worried about what they'll think. But, like you stated above, he won't really care because he loves you enough.
Anyways...like I said before, I'm just like you: never had sex before. But here's a link to a Videojug video. It's about feeling confident naked. Embarrassing topic I know lol. But honestly, confidence is the first step to anything. So, just do what feels right (cliche I know, I'm sorry). But really, I'd watch this video. It gives you a few tips to feeling good about yourself right before:
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I'm sorry if this doesn't help or give you exactly what you were asking for. All I know is that with anything in life first comes confidence. He loves you, so you've already 'reeled him in'. I doubt he'll stop loving you just because you may not know everything there is to know about sex. It's your first time, relax. The thing about sex is that there's no like contest to it if that makes any sense. Like, if you love someone, I'd imagine it's really good no matter what.
If you have any more questions, I'll try and answer them to the best of my ability. Once again, I'm sorry if this didn't help as I'm no expert either on sex. But I'm here for you because I totally understand where you're coming from. Good luck, I hope it all works out and remember to use protection. ;]
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