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it hurts


Question Posted Tuesday April 22 2008, 10:37 am

ok..i am almost 16 and i dont want to sound like a slut or anything, but ive been fingered quite a lot, about 10-15 times (not all by different people) and every time it hurts, some more than others. at first i thought it was just them being bad at it but now i know its me. when will it stop hurting? ive only had sex once and of course that hurt.

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dottie4 answered Tuesday April 22 2008, 10:23 pm:
I doubt it's actually you. You just need to be with someone you feel comfortable with to do things like that. Sex however is a different story. :3 That can feel good if you do it with anyone. However it's better after you do it a lot and if it's with someone you feel comfortable with. And you are deffinetly not a slut. A lot of people at your age do WAY more then what you have done. Big deal you've been fingered. And yes eventually it will stop hurting. You probably just need to relax and do it somewhere where you know for sure no one else will come in. And of course sex will hurt the first time you do it. Ask anyone whos no longer a virgan. It hurts like hell! But after you do it a few times it feels better. I'm apoligize if I didn't give you the exact answer you were looking for but I answered as thorough as I could

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