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do i love my best friend
I can't seem to figure out whether i love my best friend as more than just a friend or as a bother and also vice versa i don't no whether he thinks of me more or just as his little sister. We spend nearly every day with each other and look out for each other no matter what. But recently we've started swimming and his attitude towards me changed. He has always hugged and kissed me but the other day he was doing it in the pool but it seemed lyk in a more flirty way. I can't seem to figure out whether he wants something more and whether i like him or not. He started liking my best friend for a while but even at that it was over and done with very quickly and i think i was a bit jealous. I don't no whether i was jealous of him and hers relationship or whether i was jealous that he'd spend more time with her than me. I'm so confused . Any advice would be greatly appreciated x
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Even if you just care for him as a friend it is normal for you to be jealous when he begins spending time with another girl. He is YOUR best friend and you would feel like someone is trying to take him away. As for figuring out if you like him or not, I think you should ask him how he feels about you. You seem like you do kinda like him in that way and it seems like he is flirty and things so ask him about it. Let him know you may be interested in moving to the next level, but don't do anything you are uncomfortable with. Good Luck.
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hey it sounds like your in a sticky situation girl. i'm 14/f. well my name is michaela and what i would do is the next time you are with him..i would really keep my eyes open and really look at him, i mean like really look at him for who he is not looks. but try to see how he acts around you and look for little clues to show that he may like you or just as a little sister. also i think you are a little jealous but its perfectly normal. just dont let him and your friend get to your head. because it may not even last. as for him spending more time with her he could just think she is cool, or likes her, or is trying to make you jealous. but see how he reacts to you if you try to flirt some. that could really bring him out..he may flirt back or just take it as a joke. also when the time is right and you think you should talk to him about how you feel definately do it, but make sure he feels the same or it may cause awkwardness between you to... but keep an open heart and an open mind okay.
i hope i seriously helped. good luck girl.
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