So, I have been on and off with the same guy for a while now. Basically we break up, see other people, end up missing each other and go back out again, then we break up with each other after like 2 weeks for stupid reasons and then it happens all over again. Well that all finally stopped and we haven't gone out for like 5 months. Ive been out with a few guys but i always think back on how much i really miss him and how badly i want him back. He has been going out with this new girl for about a month and our relationship just seems hopeless now. I want to talk to him about it but i think it would be akward now that he's in a good place with his girlfriend, and i really don't want to mess them up. I know that if we go out again things will be different and it will be more serious and not just a mess-around type relationship. Ahg i dono im so confused and im sorry this was so long. Thank you so much Jenna it means a lot. (:
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? jennalovesyou answered Sunday April 20 2008, 1:24 pm: ah wow, seems like you're in a pretty bad position =/. well probably the worst thing you could do at this point is mess up his relationship. if you really care for him, you would want him to be happy. no matter how hard it is. but make him WANT you back. start hanging out with him and stuff like old times :P. ehh innocent flirting possibly? but not too obvious. i don't know, just try something like that and if that doesn't work then come back and tell me what happened. good luck! i'm so sorry you have to go through all of this, i know how hard it is =/
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