how do you get over a guy?? i broke up with my bf and he and i were best friends and i just dont know what to do!!! please help. im at the point where im really realizing and understanding that its OVER and its for good. its so hard and hurts so much and im pretending like it doesnt but it does and i dont even know why. i just dont understand and im moving soon so its so hard cause right now im preparing to leave everything and i was counting on 2 more months to spend with my bf and now its over. please help im in high school/female
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? cloudy_conscience answered Saturday April 19 2008, 12:09 pm: I totally understand what you are going through, I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years and knowing that it was over was the worst part of it. But I knew that it was the best thing fo rme to do. Now he and I are still good friends, yeah we don't get to hang out as much as often but having him there to talk to helps matters alot. Though it does sometimes cause problems with my current.
If you want to get over him then the best thing to do is to spend time with friends, they are a big help. But if you feel like you want him back and you made a mistake then you should let him know. It sounds to me like you weren't ready to let go of him and thats perfectly okay, it sounds like you don't want to hurt him when you move, but you should cherish this time you have with him until move. Then worry about that when the bridge comes, things will work out. Maybe once you move you could break-up, but still stay in contact.
ZestyCelestey answered Saturday April 19 2008, 1:37 am: I'm sorry about your break up, but these kinds of things just happen and there's honestly nothing really you can do but move on. If you just sit here and like think about him all the time it's going to be even harder to get over him. So my advice is just to keep moving on and start dating other guys. And you never know, if you and your ex are meant to be you'll be together.
Hope i helped!(:
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