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How do I know if he likes me?
Im 13 and i am a female
There is a guy at school that I really like and we have been friends for a really long time, but recently we got in a fight and now things are better but, our relashionship hasn't really been the same. I don't know how to tell him that I love him. You know the feeling that you are just supposed to be with someone but you don't know if they feel the same way? Well that is how I feel. I know that he likes me though because I talk to him and flirt with him and text him all the time, I just think that he likes other people more than he likes me. It doesn't really bother me that I don't know if we will ever be a couple, but it really bothers me because I see what our realationship could be and I want it to be that way. I can never get my mind off of him. It feels like when I dont' see him there is a huge hole in my heart. I love him more when he is not around. The days that we talk I wish that he would ask me out and the days that i don't talk to him, I feel weak and like he took a big chunk of me with him. i know you are probably wondering how a 13 year old could feel this way, but i just do. I love him. And i wont be satisfied with myself until he asks me out or he just tells me that he loves me. I can tell he loves me, but i dont think he will ever say it out loud. What should i do? I need advice!!!
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this happend to me before, except i never got to express my feelings towards him.. it was too late, and everything fell apart before i knew it.
what i learned from my mistake is that you need to tell people how you truely feel. NEVER EVER hold something back when you have such a strong feeling.
so my advice to you, is to get alone with him and tell him pretty much everything you wrote on here. basically tell him how much you care about him and how you feel that you guys should take it to the next level. dont leave anything out, because in the end it will pay off to get this off your chest.
i dont know where you two stand right now and why your not anything more than you want to be, but it could be that hes not completely sure what your feelings are towards him, and hes too afraid to express himself.
everyone is afraid of rejection and heartbreak. but honestly, your never going to know what could have been if you dont put yourself out there and stand up for what you want.
so dont sit back and wait for something to happen. if its meant to be, it will. but you need to make an effort in order for everything to fall into place.
be confident and go after him girl, and good luck! (:
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