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WHO TO PICK?!?! PLEASE HELP ME=[
first off im 16/f and okay so ive been going out with my bf for almost 6 months, hes like in love with me and everything but i feel like im not totally in love with him. Like i only started going out with him because i love his personality, but physically im not too attracted to him and i feel like maybe there should be more to it if i was in love with him, you know? like he says im the one for him and he wants to like be with me forever, but the truth is, hes my first bf, idk who i want to be with forever, im just experimenting with relationships and i guess maybe im not ready for a fullout commited relationship and im scared to disapoint him and say anything. but then theres this other guy who ive just started becoming good frinds with and hes like extremelyyyyy hottttt and hes nice. and like im physically attracted to him and he likes me. and im soo tempted to be with this really hot guy. and like i feel like with my boyfriend im restrained. well i guess thats what happenes when u have a bf but i feel like i wanna be able to see other people, but i dont want to break his heart and i still wanna be good friends with him, i dont know what to do. im sorry this is so long, but if you could help me that would be awesome and it would make you feel good to let you know you helped someone and possibly helped me make a great choice and guide me into the right direction. thank you again<3
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Well you are young and it makes since for you to want to experiment in new things. There does have to be some physical attraction for a relationship to work. Tell your boyfriend that you are young and you aren't sure if you are ready for that much of a commitement right now. You need to get out there and see who is out there before you know who want to be with.
I think you should go for the new guy. It seems like you are attracted to him and you aren't really that crazy about your current so why not. I mean you shouldn't worry about hurting this guy he should understand that you really want to experiment with other people. Go with your gut and your attraction. It will show you the right way to go. In the end you have to do what is best for you.
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Okay well first of all I think you should go out with the new friend.
Your only 16 and you dont need to be in such a serious relationship with your boyfriend.
I know he is in love with you and you dont want to hurt his feelings but you dont seem very happy in the relationship.
If you do decide to break up with him tell him that you would like to stay friends, but understand that it may be quite hard for him to do that. He might need some time to get used to things.
I hope this helps.
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