I was talking to this guy I like on the phone the other dayy, and we were having a really deep conversation and Ive known him for a while now. Like 2 yearsish?
And we were talking about my step mom, and all of a sudden, he asked me where my real Mom lived.
So I told him about how she was dead, and everything went extremely quiet and akward.And this is how the rest of the conversationn went.
Guy: Wow.. I feel like a jerk now.
Girl: lol why?
Guy: I unno... How old were you?
Girl: um.. five.
Guy: Are you seriouss?
Then there was along pause
Girl: yeah.. this is..
Guy: akward.
so I tried to change the subject and said,
So yeahh,, I dont know I really dont like my step mom,
And he said I can see why, But I got to go Bye, really quickly and hung up before he even said bye properly, and then he was on msn right after.
So I tried to talk to him a few days later on msn and he was giving me one word answers and being really akward and not really responding and just like stopped talking.
Do you have and ideas on what I should do to make things not so akward, or why he acted strange and akward. A lot of people know about it and hes the first person to act like that?
cloudy_conscience answered Monday April 14 2008, 12:03 pm: He most likely feels like a butthole because he brought that up and he is probably embarrassed. He may not know how to talk to you about it, he is probably embarrassed by the whole situation. Talk to him and let him know that it is okay and that he doesn't have to be embarrassed about it. Let him know that you are okay with it now and you would really like to have some more nice conversations with him.
luvbug555 answered Monday April 14 2008, 1:19 am: he probably feels like such a jerk, hes to emberassed to face you. just tell him its okay, you arent mad and it dosent have to be awkward. [ luvbug555's advice column | Ask luvbug555 A Question ]
hollister_lover09 answered Monday April 14 2008, 12:07 am: he probably just feels really bad for bringing it up. Next time you talk to him, tell him that he shouldn't feel the way he does. Tell him people ask you all the time what happened(even if they don't) and that your use to it. I hope everything turns out okay =D [ hollister_lover09's advice column | Ask hollister_lover09 A Question ]
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