I'm with this boy that i like alot and he's really jealous of my BEST FRIEND in the world. i've done everything to tell him that my friend and i don't like eachother that way...my Best Friend even told him that but we constantly fight about it now.I never ever talk about his 'BEST FRIEND' ever, and i never would cause i trust him...I just want to know what to do before i completely call off our relationship, my friendship is more important to me and if i have to choose i'm ending it.
karenR answered Sunday April 13 2008, 10:05 pm: You don't mention if your best friend is
male or female. Not that it matters a lot.
If he is jealous of a friend that he
probably knew you had before he ever
started dating you, its not going to
work out. Especially if you have already
tried talking to him about it and he
continues to be this way.
There are two very important things
in every long term relationship.
Trust and communication. Sounds like
he doesn't choose to listen and doesn't
trust you very much. He doesn't have to
be best buddy's with your friend. He
does have to accept the fact that he
can't choose your friends for you.
Have one more discussion about it.
Make sure he knows he has to trust
you and that he will not be choosing
who your friends are. If he just can't
do it, end it before you are in any
deeper. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
Ask_G answered Sunday April 13 2008, 8:35 pm: yeah, it's not going to work out if he doesn't trust you with your BEST FRIEND so i mean talk to him about it and tell him that you are not ditching your best friend because he doesn't like it so if he can't deal with it then you have to end it..
good luck [ Ask_G's advice column | Ask Ask_G A Question ]
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