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welll this boy and i have liked each other for like 2 yrs off and on. we have been best friends the whole time. then this yr since like the beginning of summer he really, really, liked me. he and i decided to date and we fell in love. we onl dated for 3 months tho. the last month we have had a lot of problems because im moving and he feels God wants us to break up and is calling him in another direction. he told me he doesnt love me anymore and lost interest in me but still wants to be friends. i am leaving in 2 months. at first i told him i hated him because i did but then we talked and i understand. i do think its good to do so but also bad because we had so much planned. i hope we can still be best friends because we have always had that and he told me we could still be friends. the thing is even though i do agree would should break up because fighting with him is hell. i still love him. please what should i do? m not like completely depressed because i know God will make it ok and hes not the right one for me but if you can understand he and i were in love. we have ALWAYS flirted and had attraction to each other. he was my very best friend. and i do still love him. how should i get over him and now that he and i r 'just friends' what should i do and not do? this is so hard and i just need some help and to get through it. as well as leaving my friends, church, school, and everything now im leaving him and our realationship before i even leave. but i still really want to be close friends. how do i show him i can do that? he didnt dump me btw we kinda just broke up. i dumped him then he told me he lost interest in me then i was like no we can make it work then i agreed he was right.
its just so hard because he is the first boy i truly loved and we were only together for 3 months and im leaving and me moving ruined everything. we had so much planned and so many memories to make and so many sweet times i keep looking back to. and he always told me how much he loved me and cared for me and that he would always remember me and i believe those things but its so hard now because now he doesnt love me. i agree with breaking but i still, at least love him. oh please help me and thank you so much in advance.
and i tried so hard to be the best girlfriend i could be. i would do anything for him. it just hurts. a lot. because now its over. forever
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Maybe not forever. The romance is over for
now, but you're friends. Who knows what may
happen in the future.
With you moving, there was really nothing
else you could do but break up. It would
have happened sooner or later because long
distance dating just doesn't work most of
the time. If this had happened after you
moved, you may not have stayed friends.
Now, you will move. You leave behind a
friend. You stay in contact. Use your
IM, email, or call each other. You also
move on with your life. Make new friends
and date other boys. But, you stay friends.
If you are destined to be together you
will be someday. Now is just not the time.
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Well the thing is you still have the friendship and thats a good thing...most people can't pullthat off.Its going to hurt for a while untill you finally decide that moving on is the better thing to do.You always have to be honest since you are still friends you have to tell him you still have feelings for him and that its going to be hard to stay 'just friends' for you....if he cares about you and he's a good friend he'll understand.I wish you the best of luck and hope everything works out
Hope i helped
@};-Ashley L
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