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this is going to be long story but im going to try to make this short as possible.
okay... there's two guys im going to talk about: Landon and Cole [not real names]
in december, we had this dance in this school and we had to perform. we had a practice, Landon chose me, he had a boyfriend but we ended up liking each other but he had a gf. in january i told him i didn't cuz i just cudnt take the pain of him having a gf and all. landon is cole's best friend, then in febuary cole asked me out. but i turned him down. he was so upset. me and cole have broken hearts. well we all text each other like a texting triangle. i text cole more and i kinda like it cuz i realize how much i really wanted to say yes back then. then all of a sudden landon started getting jealous. i dont know what to do know who i seem to like more. i seem to love both and i just can't stop, they both seem so... perfect! i never got over landon, and im starting to like cole. is it okay to like two guys but lying to them about not liking them? and i can't date until im 16 and let's say im under that...
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I think that it was very good of you to turn down Landon because he had a girlfriend I believe that was a very good choice. As for Cole, if you believe that you like him then why not give it a chance, but don't give into him if you don't know for sure if you would rather him or Landon. But if Landon has a girlfriend then he really needs to decide who he likes and wants to be with. You or Her?
I think you should let Cole know you like him and talk to Landon about the situation. Let him know that you care about him, but you also like Cole. Tell him that you want to maybe give Cole a chance because he doesn't have a girlfriend. But don't compromise yourself for either one of them. Follow your heart and gut, they always know whats best.
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If Landon is still dating this girl, then he needs to get his priorites straight. I understand that feelings for people change, but Landon shouldn't be making any moves if he already has a girlfriend. If anything he need to be absolutely sure about how he feels for you and how he feels for his girlfriend. As for you and Cole, it sounds like things can work out better with the two of you. Landon shouldn't be jealous of something he already has. If he's in a reationship with someone, then he needs to appreciate what he's got. If he really is that good of a boyfriend, then he would do anything he could to save the relationship. If it does come to the point that you go for Landon instead of Cole then be careful because another girl may come around that he may like more then you, and you'll be left hurting. The guys shouldn't be jealous of each other, but be supportive of each other. It shouldn't be some "competition". They should be happy for each other either way.
If you're not allowed to date now, then maybe you shouldn't be focusing on the guys. You should wait and see what else is out there for you. And when it does come to the time when you can date, then you'll be completely sure of who will have genuine feelings for you. I wouldn't worry about stuff like this if I were you. Focus more on what'll make you happy, not on what'll make you stressed or confused. Choose someone who will have their main focus in a BF/GF relationship on you.
Hope this helps! Good luck!
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