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cant get along
i have a 10 month old..a 2 year old..and i am 8 months pregnant..i live with my mom,sister,and her 2 kids..i constantly have to keep my 2 year old in the room with me...when there is people over..family visits often..with thyre kids..and i dont want my kids influenced by the other kids that are here..i try to teach my kid..what he can ..and cant do..but its hard when there is alot of people around teaching him bad things like cussing and hitting..and i cant get along with some of the people that visit..i dont want him influenced by that..when were not in the room..i have to keep my eye on him the whole time..if i let him down for 1 second..someone is either..yelling that he is getting into something..or kids..screaming constantly..its chaos and very stressfull..exspecially me being 8 months pregant..i have to pack him on my hip..all the time..just to make other people happy.and i shouldnt need to do that..when there is noone here.. its just me him and my 10 month old..its so much more relaxing..and i dotn have to chase after him as much..as if they were people here..im afraid to move out on my own right now..cause im 8 months..i dont know what to do about the whole situation
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Well my suggestion to you is to move out. I know it seems stressful, however right now you're in a very stressful situation. Look for a place thats close to your mom's house that way you will have someone nearby to help you out, but at the same time you will have your own space to escape to when family visits. It seems intimidating to move out on your own, especially with little kids and another one on the way, but you could always get a nanny or just find ways to keep the little ones occupied. Playroom, art projects, television, etc.
hope this helps, and hope things get better, and good luck with your kids.
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