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what do i do now?
ok so there is this guy at my school who i really like and i think that we have a "connection" unfortunetly i learnt that he didn't like me and that he liked my sister (were twins) and my sister doesn't even like him so do you think i should just let it blow over he changes crushes quickly?
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Twin/with boyfriend for about 1 year and half now.
My boyfriend used to fancy my twin sister and I hated it - it sucked, but I couldn't do anything about it. My sister liked him too at that point, but she changes crushes very quickly and went off him. In that case - don't be afraid to get involved at all. At this point you don't need to worry about who he fancies, or about it blowing over, you need to get in there and flirt like crazy! But be cool and don't be needy. He probably like your sister because that's the point - she doesn't like him so she doesn't give off a kind of needy sense. With twins, its always going ot be a sticky situation but the great thing is your going to be similar so he likes her - he'll probably like you too. Same with my boyfriend. Then you just have to work on making him like you more. Just chat more, talk more, make jokes :). You can't just wait for him to start fancying you, you have to get in there and then wait it out, not wait it out then get in there :D.
I don't know how competitive you and your sister are, but me and my sister are very competitive. It helps to have a competitive sense so you always aim higher :D!!
While its just a crush its ok for him to like your sister too :)... its when you start getting serious that it matters that hes gotten over your sister :)
My boyfriend and my sister are still quite close friends but I trust him and I know thats all theyll ever be. Once I got in there and after a while, told him I liked him, there was no question who it was going to be.
But I had to put a little effort and I had to tell him I liked him (I had a friend egging me on)... (that was after about a month and a half of flirting on top of our friendship) and after that he asked me out.... and now it's been ages.
Don't wait about, get in theeere! Yeaaah :).
Best of luck mdear :)
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I would let him do his thing for now. You say that he changes crushes quickly, so whose to say even if you all were to get together he wouldn't 'change his mind' yet again? I don't want to see you get hurt. I personally think you should look elsewhere, but if you choose to attempt to pursue a relationship with him, just be careful. Look out for you baby girl!
<3 Leslie
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