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Surviving a break up
Today my boyfriend of six months left me. It doesn't sound long, but the relationship has been incredibly intense and he is my first love. I wasn't given alot of warning and I'm pretty devastated if truth be told. It's also come at a really bad time as I have important exams coming up.
I know the basics of keeping my mind off it. I called my best friend as soon as it happened and she's been with me most of the day, as well as planning a girly day out for me and our friends to cheer me up.
I know that time is a healer and gradually I'll start to feel better, but I really need some tips as to how I can move on. He doesn't go to my school so I don't ever have to see him, which helps.
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I'm so sorry to hear this. I know it hurts
really bad.
It looks like you are off to a good start.
Hanging out with your friends and doing fun
things will help a lot. The bad times will
be when you are alone. Everything will
remind you of him for some reason or another.
Be ready for it! On TV on the radio.
You will really start to heal when you find
someone to replace him. I know you don't even
want to think about that right now, but it
will happen. Doesn't mean you will ever
completely forget about him, but he will
just be a memory.
In the mean time just keep your mind occupied.
Read, talk to friends, hunt stuff up on the
internet, go for a walk, exercise...anything!
I know it hurts real bad and I sure wish I
had magic words to ease your pain. It does
take time to heal, even with friends helping.
You'll get there though. As much as you cared
for this guy, there is someone even better for
you out there! Can you just imagine what a
great guy he must be? I can't wait to hear
all about him!
Chin up! Write anytime you need to vent. :)
Karen
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