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okay. so he broke it by saying that he didnt care about me and was useing me. and 5 people told me that and then he told me diffrent i dont know who to belave and if hes lieing to me i mean i want to talk him back but dont know what to do.
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So, he told you outright that he was using you, and then told other people the same thing?
And now he is asking you to take him back, right?
Hmm..and you said he almost made you cry when he did this?
Is he really begging you to take him back, and I mean, very sincerely? If he is telling the truth, and really does want to get back together then those same five people that heard that he was using you...should also have heard that he now realizes that he was horribly mistaken and wants you back!
IF he can go around "fluffing his rooster feathers" and telling people that he was 'just using you'..then he ought to be "man" enough to also do the opposite:
Lose his ego, and tell those same five people how much he really wants you back.
Sounds like he's playing a lot of games..and I do hate "head games"! 'Say what you mean, and mean what you say' is one of my main mottos.
Tell him that you will consider taking him back if he says in front of those same people (that he told that he was using you) that he really wants to be with you and to be together again. If he can't do that, and swallow his pride after hurting your feelings so very much (and embarrassing you in front of your mutual friends!) then you shouldn't take him back because he will likely just do what he did before, and cause you even more heartache.
So basically, tell him you'll take him back under the condition that your mutual friends KNOW that he made a mistake when he treated you that way, and if you two get back together, he won't be afraid to show you public affection (for example: he won't be afraid to hold hands around those same people!).
Hugs and don't let him walk on you!,
Jasmine Moon
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