My friends hate me!, im not even joking around. like they dont tell me that but we don't even talk anymore i can't tell them things cause we are so different and they only judge me which makes me feel horrible. so i stared to hang out with people more like me but i feel bad for just up and leaving them all the time, even though they dont really care. but the guy i like is their best friend who i use to hang out with all the time. i think he is only not asking me to be his girlfriend cause of that. idk? someone please just help me. i dont know what to do.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? beckyboo answered Monday April 7 2008, 8:44 pm: Oh, I truly understand how you're feeling. I had a group of "friends" a few months ago, until I realized that we weren't really friends after all. They always judged me and I didn't trust them, and I was only hanging out with them because I had no one else to go to. Seriously, once I severed ties with them, I felt so much better. You can be a whole new person, and you don't have this whole weight on your chest. Nobody is benefiting from this relationship you have with your 'friends', so there's no point in keeping it up.
I'm sorry about the guy you like, I don't know what to tell you about that. Try to keep in contact with him, there's no reason why you can't be friends / maybe more with him. [ beckyboo's advice column | Ask beckyboo A Question ]
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