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in the same bed


Question Posted Monday April 7 2008, 2:47 am

i am not doing anything. i didnt think she will sleep in my bed. i mean we are not face to face. i know she no want to sleep on the floor but my other friend sleep on the floor she no mind, but sara doesnt say anything she will lay on my bed, i got annoyed cause she took the whole bed! she said "happy now more room for yeah" i said "yes". i get grumpy when someone in my way when i sleep.
man what the fuck she does that! i ignore her and treat her like a friend. i dont flirt or get close SHE does that, she stright (so i think she is) but fuck. i dont know what to do...so i ignore her.


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Razhie answered Monday April 7 2008, 5:04 pm:
You are doing something: You are failing to stand up for yourself.

She keeps doing these things, because she wants the attention and if you try not to give it to her, she will keep trying harder, like a small child would.

If something makes you uncomfortable, confused, or unhappy SAY SO.

Stand up for yourself. Demand respect for your feelings. Maybe sleep on the floor yourself or better yet, don't invite her to sleep over at all.

Stop just putting up with her! That is not going to solver this problem. This wont end until you put a stop to it.

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