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more excitement!
well i've been with my boyfried for almost 2 months. the first month was great! amazing even. but lately its just seemed as if i were just another girl. i know he cares about me. when its just us two its different(most of the time) its better. im not sure whats change but something has. i feel like when im gone for a while he doesnt miss me..that or he doesnt show it. idk its crazy. i think we need more flirting going on. that could make it funner. but how exactly do i do that? like how do i be more flirty..any tips? thatd be great!
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Now that you've been in a relationship for awhile, he doesn't have to constantly be trying to "win you over". Like, you can hang out with other people & friends and not be all over each other.
When you're apart, your relationship has developed to the point that you can trust each other. One (or both) of you might be worried about getting sick of each other, so you might limit phone calls/texting/IM more than you used to.
I felt like you did for awhile- that my boyfriend didn't miss me. It's totally irrational, after all, he's dating you! Of course he likes you and misses you when you're not there. It's actually kind of creepy when people are always either a) all over each other or b) moaning that they're not with their significant other every second. You have to find that balance between seeing each other and spending time with friends & doing other things you enjoy.
So if you want to be more flirty, just be yourself. Sit together, hold hands, kiss him at random (but appropriate) times, send him cute text messages, etc- little things like that.
The feeling that you're " just another girl" may be from falling into a routine when you hang out together. Go on dates that involve something besides a movie & just sitting there. Miniature golf, shopping, taking a drive somewhere (if it's legal, hahaha), or stay at home and watch old TV shows on DVD. Variety is the spice of life ;]
Have fun =]
-LM
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well my friend has been in dat situation n her boyfriend was actin like yours 2.... you just need 2 do more things 2 getha... go 2 places... have fun... open up 2 him... dont b scared 2 do anythin with him or dont b scared 2 say n e thing.. you really think you need 2 b more flirty wit him????// well gurl just get closer 2 him wen you around him let ur self go... r u sure he really wants 2 b wit you??????????/ but n e ways... good luck i hope this helps you a little... by the way if you dont tell him how you feel den he dont know wats wrong wit you n wat he needs to change so you n him can b happy.. n you wont b feelin the way you feelin know..
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