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slag ?????
hiya :)
I lost my virginity when i was 13 years old and now iam 16 ( just turned ) and iv slept with 14 different guys and done loads of stuff i have a really bad repuation as a slut and i want it to change so bad i feel so ashamed of myself and dirty i wish i could go back and change time but i know i cant. could you tell me what you think of me and if you have any cloo on what to do to change my repuation.
thanx x
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well it depends, if the guys you slept with are ones that your really loved and thought you would spend the rest of your life with or maybe you were peer pressured, i don't consider your a slut. if you just sleep around for the heck of it..and that IS a lot of guys..ehh that's kind of dirty. but i think if you stop, and try to totally forget your past (which i bet is really hard) and don't have sex again until your married you could feel better about yourself. if you're religious, you could go to the minister and confess all your sins and ask for forgiveness, wow that is the best feeling and just promise you'll make better decisions. but you can't really stop people from thinking what they think, since they don't know the real story from your view (whatever it is), so maybe moving yourself out of the way of those people to people who don't know your past would be good if your really that serious about having a bad reputation. and no one can tell you your reputation doesn't matter unless you respect yourself, thats not reality, that's bullshit. but i'm sure convincing your parents to move will be hard but there are a ton of excuses you could make up without telling them :)
i hope i helped!
--jenna
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