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rape?


Question Posted Wednesday April 2 2008, 11:13 am

well my boyfriend has been pushing me to have sex, and I say no, but last night he like held me down and did it. Like, I fell asleep on the couch and he like held me down and started having sex on me, it felt good, but I didn't want to.

is this rape?

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Razhie answered Wednesday April 2 2008, 12:33 pm:
Yes.
Or at the very least, sexual assualt.

Break up with him. Tell an adult you can trust. Consider legal action.

A boy who will FORCE you to have sex is a monsterous scum bag. He doesn't love you. He didn't even like you enough to not abuse you.

It doesn't matter if it felt good, you still said no. Someone could shove dutch chocolates in your mouth and they would still taste good, but it would still be mean and wrong of them to do.

It's okay if you love him, but you can't let it continue. A guy who thinks that raping you is okay, could very easily decide one day that insulting you, hitting you or theatening you is also okay.

Please, don't let him get away with it. Don't let him believe this is okay behavoir. The only way you can show him how NOT okay this is, is by dumping him, and pursuing the proper legal response to his behavoir.

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