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random hate?
okay.
so me and this boy cody used to be really good friends.
and he started liking this girl amy...
and i always helped him out with "girl trouble"
and so i told him what he should do.
then finally he asked her out.
and i didnt know it but she HATES me to death.
and i have no clue why.
but then he randomly starts hating me too.
he calls me all sorts of names now.
and he deleted me off his myspace.
so whats up with that?
help..?
please. "/
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He sounds pretty pathetic if you ask me hon. I mean come on, if you drop your friend for a girl your just stupid. I mean eventually they will break up...well...possibly..its a good chance lets just say.
Well, I think you should just ignore him. Act like its not bothering you even if it is because honestly that will really make him AND her mad. If she hates you and see's that your ex-best friend, or whatever you'd like to call him, hates you too and you dont care shes gonna flip.
Then hes gonna have to hear about it and after a while that will get annoying and hes gonna dump her and crawl back to you with the "im soooo sorry!"'s and stuff like that.
Hope that helps some
xx
Hope
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you know, sometimes people hate just because they can. there are always going to be people who hate others for no reason at all, it just happens. this girl amy probably influenced cody's opinion about you. deep down, he doesn't hate you. but relationships can influence people to do stupid things, like hate someone just because their bf/gf hates them. it's just something that people do to keep the relationship. eventually though, this whole thing will end, and they'll break up, and you'll find you two talking and hanging out again. this won't last forever, i promise =]
hope it helps =]]]]]
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ok. when i read this it reminded me of something very recent that happened to me.
i also had a friend like yours ( close guy friend ) who likes this girl that dislikes me, backstabs, and lashes out at me all the time. She hates me mostly because I'm closer with her than him, which could be why this amy says she hates you. anyway, this girl said a bunch of things like "you've changed" and "you used me in a scheme" and weird things like that, and all of the sudden my guy friend starts saying these things too.
the thing is, we're alright now, and you and cody will probably be alright soon too because he will realize that he values his friends more than he does a girlfriend. I mean, girlfriends will come and go but if you were that close, a friendship like that will last. Just right now, he probably likes her a lot from what you said. And when guys like girls they go to drastic measures for them, like agree with witchy things they say. Girls can be vicious, and usually guys don't really get that it might hurt their friends.
You could try and talk to him about it, because obviously it's immature that he deleted you off his myspace and calls you names. And that's the truth , most likely he's just immature.
good luck patching things up, and I hope you don't get too torn up over it. you know you didn't do anything, and it would be ridiculous to let this girl come between you two.
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