|
please, don't spare me
Really, let me have it- this is what I'm looking for, rational opinions from all angles. Don't fear offending me please, you did that already lol I can take it. I'm interested to know how you feel knowing some of the things I explained better. Please
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships?
Please understand, I am not too fearful of offending you. Read through the rest of my advice if you would like and you will see that I do not often fear ruffling a few feathers. I am choosing not too, because I would only be repeating what I had said originally, and that would make me only be offending you for the sake of offending you. I have no new information to add.
You offered extra information and many justifications. They did not change my perspective.
I give advice to be effective: If I have upset you a bit and made you think a bit, I am satisfied and I would absolutely encourage you to seek other rational opinions as well! There are some great other columnists here you can ask your question directly too. Some of my favorites are on my favorite columnist list. I was honest when I said I hope to hear from you in the future it is simply that, at this time, I saw no details in your extra information that drove me to amend or adjust my advice.
The only thing I would like to correct is that I am perfectly aware you made an active choice in this situation and happy to accept he is not a 'bad, bad man'. I know my advice could be interpreted to see him as 'victimizing' you, but I don't believing he would ever see himself as deliberately doing that, and I certainly know that you are willingly accepting all he has offered you. You are not bad people in my mind, you are people making very bad choices.
Also, I might be wrong in thinking you are a bit new here, but questions should not be used to hold conversations. That will get you banned here.
Please phrase things as specific question. If you would rather not, you are welcome to contact me via e-mail instead.
PLEASE SEEKING COUNSELING.
]
More Questions: |